Barbara Louise Wild

Barbara Louise Wild

Female 1930 - 2022  (91 years)

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  • Name Barbara Louise Wild 
    Birth 12 Nov 1930  Langdon, Cavalier, North Dakota, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 8 May 2022  Crookston, Minnesota, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Person ID I81  Default
    Last Modified 25 May 2022 

    Father Edward George Wild,   b. 24 Aug 1892, Osnabrock, Cavalier, North Dakota, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 18 May 1980, Crookston, Polk, Minnesota, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 87 years) 
    Mother Dorothy Ann Daggett,   b. 21 Jul 1900, Minneapolis, Hennepin, Minnesota, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 23 Nov 1964, Valley City, Barnes, North Dakota, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 64 years) 
    Marriage 18 Nov 1922  Church of the Incarnation, Minneapolis, Hennepin, Minnesota, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Notes 
    • ed note: At some point (1980's?), Joyce Wild Mattson asked her brothers and sisters to record what they remembered. These notes were found as several pieces of paper clipped together. Only David's note is signed. Fortunately, David's note also explained what all of these pieces of paper were about. Here are the contents of those notes.

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      30's dust bowl
      car - running board, windshield opening
      bathroom; batteries, power plant in basement
      one room school; consolidated school

      'Sudden death awakens the living. It awakens us to realize if we are going to have good times with our families we must have them now. It awakens us to realize that if we are going to visit friends and relatives we must do it now. It awakens us to realize that if we are going to prepare ourselves for death we must do it now.'

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      15 sandwiches every school morning
      watching and performing in community clubs
      Canning of meat, vegetables and fruit
      shelling peas
      13 mi to Langdon - in winter 3 hr each way
      Cat's cradle
      The wind
      Mother's hay fever - going to Mpls each year for relief and Jim Wild reversing
      Her mask
      Oct. 9 - 'cobwebs' - Indian summer
      Homemakers - 4-H
      County fair
      Colds - goose grease, flannel on chest
      School miles - 17 mi a day, 300+ a mo

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      As the grain on the Peter Wild farm was harvested, it was stored in the elevator at the farm. A winter task was to move the grain to the family-owned elevator in Easby, about seven miles to the north, where the grain could then be loaded on railroad box cars. Dad was one of the grain haulers for a number of years. Using a large box, called a grain tank, mounted on a bob-sled and pulled by farm horses, he would make two trips each day to the elevator in Easby. The grain tank probably held 60 to 70 bushels of wheat or barley. When a North Dakota blizzard struck, Dad would stay at the 'hotel' in Easby, putting the horses up at the 'livery stable'. Easby, which at one time had a bank and several general stores, had essentially ceased to exist by the 1930's.

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      Tracing the outline of our foot to send to Wards or Sears to order shoes

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      Joyce -- Sorry I didn't respond to your request the first time around - just forgot. I think it's a good idea and I hope you do better this time.

      Rather than begin with "what I remember" I would like to turn it around and reflect on "what I don't remember" because I think it says a lot about the character of Mother and Dad. I'm thinking particularly about the mid-30's when I was 8 to 10 years old. Looking back on those years I'm becoming more aware of how tough it was - no crops, no money, extremely hot in the summer and cold in the winter. What I don't remember is ever hearing Mother and Dad expressing discouragement or hopelessness or self-pity. As kids we didn't know how bad it was, and they didn't complain even thought it must have been very discouraging. Tomorrow would be better. Don't give up.

      Our house was comparatively large and as kids the many rooms all seemed spacious. But each room shrunk dramatically in size by the time we returned home from college. It's hard to imagine how the kitchen, for example, prepared so many meals, baked so much bread (from scratch), canned so many vegetables, etc, etc. And all done with very limited cupboard space. Equally amazing things happened in the dining room and living room and all the other rooms - they sure got smaller as the house got older. Dave
    Photos
    Ted and Billie Wild house being built, about 1924
    Ted and Billie Wild house being built, about 1924
    Ted and Billie Wild house 1925
    Ted and Billie Wild house 1925
    Catherine Fahnlander Wild on front steps with unknown man; grandson Ted Wild Jr. is at the side of the house; Ted Wild's first car in front
    Ted and Billie Wild farm, about 1955
    Ted and Billie Wild farm, about 1955
    Histories
    The Diary of Dorothy Daggett Wild (1937-38)
    The Diary of Dorothy Daggett Wild (1937-38)
    A diary kept by Dorothy Daggett Wild in 1937 and 1938
    Family ID F25  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 12 Nov 1930 - Langdon, Cavalier, North Dakota, USA Link to Google Earth
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  • Photos
    Teddy, Bob, Dorothy, David, Joyce and Barbara Wild
    Teddy, Bob, Dorothy, David, Joyce and Barbara Wild
    From left: Teddy, Bob, Dorothy, David, Joyce, Barbara (very faded)
    Children of Ted and Dorothy Wild, 1933
    Children of Ted and Dorothy Wild, 1933
    Back row from left: David, Bob, Teddy
    Front row from left: Joyce, Barbara, Dorothy
    Infant is Peter
    Ted Wild family, about 1935
    Ted Wild family, about 1935
    Dorothy "Billie" Daggett Wild and Ted Wild in back.
    from left: David, Dorothy, Bob, and Teddy in middle row
    from left: Joyce, Barbara and Peter in front
    Ted and Dorothy Wild children about 1937
    Ted and Dorothy Wild children about 1937
    from left: Dorothy, Barbara, Peter and Joyce in front; Ted Jr., Bob, and David in back
    'Jumper' used by Ted Wild to take his children to school
    "Jumper" used by Ted Wild to take his children to school
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    Sister Brian
    Sister Brian

    Documents
    Sister Brian funeral service
    Sister Brian funeral service

    Histories
    2013 -- Sister Brian Jubilee
    2013 -- Sister Brian Jubilee

  • Notes 
    • 1940 US Census, Easby, Cavalier County, North Dakota
      Household headed by Edward G. Wild; owner; home value $4000; 47 years old; born in North Dakota; completed 8th grade; worked 60 hours during week of March 24-30, 1940; occupation farmer. Wife Dorothy D. Wild, 39 years old, born in Minnesota, completed high school, occupation housework. Son Edward G. Wild, 16 years old, completed 1 year of high school, born in North Dakota. Son Robert W. Wild, 14 years old, born in North Dakota, completed 8th grade. Son David D. Wild, 13 years old, completed 7th grade. Daughter Dorothy A. Wild, 13 years old, completed 6th grade. Daughter Joyce M. Wild, 11 years old, completed 5th grade. Daughter Barbara L. Wild, 9 years old, completed 2nd grade. Son Peter W. Wild, 7 years old, completed 1st grade. Daughter Susan M. Wild, 6 months old.


      Barbara Wild Given Awards On Honors Day At Mayville

      Mr. and Mrs. Edward G. Wild of Osnabrock attended Honor Day ceremonies at Mayville STC May 14 when their daughter Barbara received the Delta Kappa Gamma award and recognition for other activities. She was chosen for the "Who's Who," and received awards for library work, Student Council, class officer, the college publication and received a jacket from the athletic association. Awards were presented by Pres. O.A. DeLong.

      Mr. and Mrs. Wild stopped in Grand Forks on their return to visit with their daughter, Mrs. Emery Johnson, and Mr. and Mrs. J.F. Schneider, former Langdon residents.

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      Entered the Benedictine Order as Sister Brian

    • 2013 excerpt from Crookston newspaper article about the jubilee of Sister Brian Wild and others

      When I first thought of being a sister in 1949 to July 11, 2013 is indeed longer than 50 years. Certainly before 1949 I am indebted to my parents for our family's firm foundation and family life. We lived on a farm thirteen miles from Langdon, ND, which meant we attended country school for our first eight years. Since we lived in the country all eight of us children worked and played together.

      When it came time for high school, our parents arranged for us to go to high school at Saint Alphonsus in Langdon and come home on weekends. We girls could stay at school, which was staffed by the Presentation Sisters from Fargo, and our parents arranged for the boys to have a place to do light housekeeping during the week. It was during those high school years when we had more exposure to the sisters and priests who staffed Saint Alphonsus parish and school. Each spring, the high school students had a mission/retreat and it was during my senior year - and I can remember the very pew I was sitting in during the retreat that it came to me what I should do after high school - enter religious life. I didn't tell anyone and there was nothing in writing but in my mind it was a "promise" to God and I was not about to break that "promise".

      Somewhere along the way I had read the quotation "God writes straight with crooked lines." I thought of that quote many times and I guess that pretty well describes my years since high school graduation that spring in 1949. After a year at home I enrolled as a student at Mayville State Teachers College (now a University). I received a one year scholarship provided I would return to my home county to teach in a rural school for two years. This I did, and then went back to Mayville to earn my bachelor's degree with a math major. As I was looking as to where I might teach, two conditions were always part of my decision making. Because of my "promise" during senior year, I desired to keep that thought uppermost in my mind so I wanted a town where I would be able to attend daily Mass and a town near enough to be able to drive home each weekend.

      Teaching mathematics in Devils Lake, ND, met both of those conditions, so the first two years after graduation I spent in Devils Lake. After those years, I worked in the public school system in Moorhead, MN, for two years, this time, in charge of two libraries (my minor in college). Although I didn't know it at the time, this situation also met my conditions plus it also gave me the help I knew I needed. I was getting older and I also knew that age thirty was sometimes a cut-off point for considering a religious vocation. I was able to attend daily Mass at Saint Joseph's Church. Father Ferdinand, the pastor, noticed me and he talked to Sister Lioba, the principal at Saint Joseph's School at the time about this girl who always comes to Mass.

      Sister Lioba approached me shortly after and asked if I would be interested in seeing the Mount. I don't think I even knew the Mount existed. The only thing I knew about Crookston was that there was a school of agriculture there. That was the break-through I needed because I knew I was not able to do any of this on my own. It is really thanks to Father Ferdinand and Sister Lioba that my "promise" would be fulfilled. I entered Mount Saint Benedict that fall as a postulant with Sister Brigetta as the postulant mistress. There were 12 postulants at that time and we lived in "Angels Dorm" - the top floor of the music conservatory. We were six when we moved to the Mount for the novitiate. Sister Aquina, novice mistress, and Sister Cornelia, nuniorate mistress, certainly did their utmost to further strengthen bonds with the community. After the novitiate and final vows in 1968, came 25 years of teaching math (each year a very enjoyable and rewarding experience) at Mount Saint Benedict Academy in Crookston, Sacred Heart High School in East Grand Forks and Shanley High School in Fargo, ND. Later, I taught grade school at Saint Joseph's in Moorhead.

      I have been back at the Mount since 1990. It was at this time it became necessary to demolish the original monastery and begin the construction of the new one. I was very much interested in this, and the previous sister in charge of buildings and maintenance was no longer with us which meant there was an immediate opening for me in that line of ministry - a ministry in which I am still involved today. Now another new building is to be constructed, which I hope means I will be ale to continue to be involved. Those crooked lines have finally become straight, for which I am certainly most grateful along with the helpers along the way.
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      OBITUARY FROM KROAX.COM, 13 May 2022:

      On November 12, 1930, Sister Brian was born in Fargo, North Dakota, the sixth of eight children of Edward George Wild, Sr., and Dorothy Daggett Wild. She was given the name Barbara Louise Wild at her baptism.

      She obtained a bachelor of science degree in secondary education in 1957 from Mayville State Teacher’s College, Mayville, ND, and taught in the Moorhead Public School System.

      Barbara entered the Benedictine community on August 15, 1961, and she received the Benedictine habit and the name of Sister Brian on July 2, 1962. Sister Brian made temporary vows on July 11, 1963, and final monastic profession on July 11, 1968.

      Sister Brian served as a mathematics instructor and a part-time librarian at Mount Saint Benedict Academy in Crookston, a physics and mathematics teacher at Sacred Heart High School in East Grand Forks, a mathematics teacher at Shanley High School in Fargo, ND, and a fifth-grade teacher at Saint Joseph’s School in Moorhead. In 1990, Sister Brian moved to the Mount and took up the responsibility for purchasing, maintenance, and security. In addition, if a sister wanted anything, she could go into Sister Brian’s office and receive anything sisters had turned in to her: watches, tools, office supplies, and numerous other items, including all kinds of batteries. It is impossible to surpass the organization of minutiae in Sister Brian’s office. And, she knew the location of everything!

      Sister Brian loved the challenge of jigsaw puzzles, and she could often be seen putting one together. She was also an avid card player.

      Sister Brian is preceded in death by her parents: Edward George Wild Sr. and Dorothy Daggett Wild, and siblings: Edward George Wild, Jr., Peter Wild, Rev. David Wild, Robert Wild, Joyce Mattson (Melvin), and Dorothy Johnson (Emery). She is survived by Sister Moira Wild, OSB of Saint Benedict’s Monastery in Saint Joseph, MN, many nieces and nephews, and the Sisters of Saint Benedict of Crookston.

      A prayer service celebrating Sister Brian’s life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Thursday, May 19. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 2:00 p.m. in Sacred Heart Chapel at Mount Saint Benedict Monastery. The Mass of Christian Burial will be live-streamed by going to her web page at www.stenshoelhouske.com and clicking on the prompt to view.

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      Reflection in memory of Sister Brian from her companion Sister Eileen. (During Sister Brian's later years in a nursing home, Sister Eileen served as her companion and intermediary with the family.)

      May 19, 2022

      How fitting that Sister Brian died on May 8, for that was the Fourth Sunday of Easter, also known as Good Shepherd Sunday because of the Gospel reading assigned for that day and which we just heard this morning. Good Shepherd Sunday is meaningful to every sister in this community because we celebrate it each year as the anniversary of our founding on Good Shepherd Sunday, 1919.

      I think it is safe to say that Sister Brian first heard the voice of the Good Shepherd at an early age as she attended Mass and learned about the Catholic faith. His gentle, yet persistent voice must have grown in her heart, nudging her into pursuing a teaching degree. Yet those early years of teaching were not enough for Sister Brian. Jesus, the Good Shepherd called her to the monastic life in this community at Mount St. Benedict. Sister Brian heard His call and responded with her whole heart, entering the community in 1961 and making final monastic profession in 1968. Recognizing Sister Brian’s excellent teaching gifts, the prioresses through the years assigned her to teach in the area’s Catholic schools. She was highly regarded as a teacher and was loved by her students. Teaching was her passion and her ministry.

      After several successful years of teaching, Sister Brian was assigned a new ministry here at the monastery, taking charge of purchasing, maintenance and security. She was good with the details of these tasks and kept everything in order. Her job included supervising employees in maintenance. Employees who reported to her regarded Sister Brian as kind, fair and supportive. In our first reading this morning from the Book of Revelation we heard, “Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord… let them find rest from their labors, for their works accompany them.” No matter what she did, Sister Brian worked tirelessly and responsibly. As a monastic, Sister Brian was faithful: faithful to community prayer, faithful to private prayer and faithful to the duties of this way of life.

      She was often seen in chapel whenever she could catch some moments between her work duties as well as in the evening. Due to a medical condition, she would typically fall asleep during prayer times. She was resting in the Lord and I think
      that was just fine with Him! She took the time to sit in God’s presence and surely God accepted her intention and received her loving presence. In the evenings Sister Brian enjoyed working on puzzles and playing cards with the sisters. She was pretty sharp at those games and also enjoyed the banter with the other card players. They enjoyed her delightful chuckle.

      After Sister Brian died, we packed up her things from her room at the Villa. Her clothes and personal effects fit on one cart! Talk about simple living! Her office was a different story. Oodles of community items were tucked into the drawers and cupboards. But then, this was a different aspect of simple living. If a sister could find a used watch from her collection, that meant she didn’t have to go out and buy one.

      Sister Brian was accepting when she was asked to move to the nursing home. The staff truly enjoyed taking care of her. She had a positive attitude and was uncomplaining. She continued to put jigsaw puzzles together and took part in other activities. As part of the ritual of our visits, I would tell her that she needed to open an envelope containing some “special medicine”. Even in her dementia, she caught on and would say, “Oh, I bet it’s chocolate!” Chocolate was a lifelong love of hers. Whenever she received visits, candy or any gift, she was gracious and appreciative right to the end.

      In our sadness and loss we rightly take comfort in Jesus’ promise: “My sheep hear my voice. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish.” Sister Brian, take rest from your labors and your suffering, for the voice of Our Good Shepherd has indeed called you Home. I bet He’s even got a stash of chocolates just for you!

      Sister Eileen Beutel, O.S.B.